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Sparking 30th Birthday: How Visualization Helped Me Create My Dream Birthday Party

14 SEPTEMBER / 2023 / 13:56

Hey there, lovely readers! Today, I'm thrilled to share with you all the details of my unforgettable birthday celebration, which I affectionately named "Sparkling 30." While I typically keep my personal life private, this milestone birthday was so special that I couldn't resist sharing the joyous moments with my amazing online community. The outpouring of love and support I received was truly heartwarming, and I want to express my gratitude by giving you an inside look into this magical celebration.

 

The Significance of Turning 30

 

As I entered this new phase of life, turning 30 felt like a significant milestone filled with empowerment and growth. It's an age where many of us feel more confident, wise, and in tune with ourselves. For me, it marked a time of self-acceptance, knowing my values, and embracing the journey ahead. I named my celebration "Sparkling 30" to capture the magical, radiant, and liberating feeling that comes with this age.

 

The Venue

 

To set the perfect stage for my birthday extravaganza, I chose the stunning Sea Breeze summer resort, nestled in the picturesque coastal region of Azerbaijan. The venue's Rose Bar, located by a glistening pool, offered breathtaking views of the sea and mesmerising sunsets. Its white decor, reminiscent of enchanting destinations like Mykonos or Nikki Beach, provided an ideal backdrop for the ambiance I envisioned.

 

Planning and Execution

 

Planning this celebration amidst the challenges of the pandemic and ever-changing regulations presented its own set of hurdles. With time constraints, I began the planning process just a week before the big day. Thankfully, my dear friend Mahin, who also happens to be a co-founder of events, lent her expertise and worked tirelessly to bring my vision to life. Her meticulous attention to detail and unwavering dedication made all the difference.

 

Décor and Atmosphere

 

For the decor, we opted for a clean and elegant white colour scheme with touches of refreshing green and the warmth of wooden accents. To infuse a touch of sparkle and enchantment, we adorned the venue with delicate chandeliers and flickering candles. The overall effect was effortlessly chic and exuded a sense of tranquillity, perfectly aligning with the vibe I had envisioned.

 

The Dress

 

One of the most frequently asked questions was about my dazzling dress. Truth be told, I had purchased it two years ago from Farfetch during a sale, and it was designed by the talented Jay (full name to be provided). The dress initially arrived with a plunging neckline and back, but I had it tailored to my personal style, resulting in a unique look that suited me perfectly. To complete my ensemble, I chose a pair of Jenna Bonita Rossi shoes with a transparent elastic band and a touch of sparkle.

 

Gratitude and Reflection

 

As the birthday video was filmed after the actual celebration, it allowed me to take a moment and reflect on the significance of this milestone. I entered my thirties with a profound sense of gratitude, health, and contentment. I am immensely thankful for my accomplishments and personal growth, but most importantly, for the incredible support and love I have received from my online community. Your messages, comments, and emails have touched my heart, and I want you to know that I read every single one with a beaming smile.

 

Choosing the Perfect Elements

 

To create the enchanting ambiance I envisioned, I carefully curated each element of the celebration. A dress, inspired by the chic styles of Paris and Kendall, became the centrepiece of my look. I paired it with elegant accessories, opting for a simple necklace that complemented the dress without overwhelming it. Similarly, I chose a grey clutch that matched the tone of my outfit, steering away from excess sparkle to maintain a balanced aesthetic.

 

The Power of Hair and Makeup

 

To complete my look, I opted for minimalistic hair and makeup. I wanted to enhance my features while keeping the focus on my eyes. With a touch of pink and silver eyeshadow, accompanied by a subtle eyeliner, I created a look that accentuated my cool undertones. My lips were adorned with a soft, beige-pink shade to ensure a harmonious balance. The hairstyle, a combination of loose curls and a braided updo, added a touch of elegance to the overall look.

 

The Venue and Music

 

Choosing the perfect venue was crucial in setting the stage for Sparkling 30. The Sea Breeze summer resort in Azerbaijan, with its breathtaking views and serene ambiance, provided the ideal backdrop. The white decor, delicate chandeliers, and flickering candles transformed the venue into a tranquil haven. As for the music, I wanted to dance the night away to the beats that truly resonated with me. The Latin American and Arabic rhythms of DJ Khalan perfectly captured the energy and joy of the celebration.

 

The Magic of Visualization in Action

 

Despite the challenges of planning amidst a pandemic and ever-changing regulations, my unwavering visualisation kept me focused and determined. Even though I started the actual planning just a week before the event, the years of envisioning had made every detail crystal clear in my mind. The dress, the venue, the atmosphere—it all came together seamlessly, as if the universe conspired to make my dreams a reality.

 

Conclusion

 

As I reflect on the joyous moments of Sparkling 30, I am reminded of the transformative power of visualisation. By envisioning and believing in our dreams, we can manifest them into reality. Whether it's a milestone celebration or any other aspect of life, let us continue to dream big, visualise with intention, and take inspired action to turn our dreams into tangible moments of happiness and fulfilment.