Many people may wonder if there are any specific rules to follow when it comes to footwear, but the reality is that there are quite a few. Understanding these rules can help you navigate different social situations with ease and ensure that you're always presenting yourself in the best possible light.

By the end of this guide culled from my video on this topic, you'll have a thorough understanding of shoe etiquette and some tips on how to wear them stylishly. Additionally, I'll share some of my favourite pairs of shoes and how I like to wear them. So, let's dive in!

Etiquette 1: Choose the Right Shoe

When it comes to choosing the right shoe, I have a few go-to rules. First and foremost, the occasion dictates the shoe. I consider the degree of formality, venue, and time of day before deciding on a shoe. Additionally, I follow the rule of thumb that the more coverage and darker the colour, the more formal the shoe. I'll share some personal anecdotes about occasions where I nailed the shoe choice, as well as times where I learned from my mistakes.

Etiquette 2: Take off Your Shoes

Growing up, taking off my shoes before entering the house was a no-brainer. However, as I've travelled and met people from different cultures, I've learned that shoe removal is a sensitive topic that varies greatly. My approach is to always respect the host's wishes, and when in doubt, to ask. I'll share some personal stories about being caught off guard with different shoe customs, and how I navigated those situations with respect.

Etiquette 3: Keeping Your Shoes Clean

Keeping your shoes clean is not just about aesthetics - it's also about hygiene. I take care to not only keep the outside of my shoes clean, but also the inside. I have a routine for removing stains, using a cotton swab and a bit of water, and even using a makeup remover for tougher stains. I also make sure to properly store my shoes, using paper to maintain their shape and prevent wear and tear. I'll share some personal stories about how proper shoe care has saved me money and helped me make a good impression in professional settings.

My Three Rules for Buying Shoes

Shoes are not just a fashion statement, but also a functional necessity. As someone who values both style and comfort, I have developed three rules that I always follow when buying shoes. In this article, I'll share these rules and explain why they are important to me.

Rule 1: Comfort Comes First

The first rule that I always follow when buying shoes is prioritising comfort. No matter how beautiful or stylish a pair of shoes may be, if they are not comfortable, I won't buy them. In this section, I'll share some personal stories about times when I ignored comfort and lived to regret it, as well as some tips for testing out shoes to ensure they are comfortable.

Rule 2: Neutral Colours Are Versatile

The second rule that I follow when buying shoes is choosing neutral colours. I find that neutral colours such as beige, black, and white are the most versatile and can be paired with a variety of outfits. In this section, I'll discuss why I prefer neutral colours, and share some personal anecdotes about times when I strayed from this rule and regretted it.

Rule 3: Versatility Is Key

The third rule that I follow when buying shoes is choosing shoes that are versatile and can be worn to a variety of events and in different seasons. I look for shoes that can go from formal to semi-formal or casual to semi-casual. In this section, I'll share some personal stories about my favourite versatile shoes, as well as some tips for choosing shoes that can be worn year-round.

My Favourite Shoes and How They Upgrade My Outfit

1. Ballerina Flats

Ballerina flats are one of my favourite shoes because they are comfortable and versatile. They can be worn for work, casual dates, and even walks in the park. In this section, I'll share some personal stories about how ballerina flats have saved my feet from discomfort and how they can elevate any outfit.

2. Pointed Toe Glossy Stilettos

My pointed toe glossy stilettos are my go-to shoes for important business meetings and white tie events. They are classic, yet elegant, with just the right amount of gloss to add a touch of glamour. In this section, I'll share some personal anecdotes about how these shoes have helped me make a great impression in professional settings.

3. Embellished Satin Heels

My embellished satin heels are a special pair of shoes that remind me of the iconic Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the City. They are delicate, yet comfortable, with a mid-length heel that makes them perfect for weddings and other formal events. In this section, I'll share some personal stories about how these shoes have made me feel like a star on special occasions.

4. White Sandals with Ankle Strap

My white sandals with ankle strap are the perfect shoes for summer. They are comfortable, yet stylish, and can be worn with almost any floral dress. In this section, I'll share some personal anecdotes about how these shoes have helped me stay cool and chic during hot summer months.

5. Sneakers and Ankle Boots

Lastly, I love my sneakers and ankle boots because they are comfortable and practical. As a busy mom who walks a lot with her kids, I need shoes that can keep up with me. In this section, I'll share some personal stories about how these shoes have helped me stay comfortable and stylish on the go.